Personality, the spirit to whom people know as. Personality is group or collection of qualities. The way personality develops is the way how you develop yourself, more specifically your qualities. It gets influenced by not only good qualities but bad qualities also.
Let’s look at example. If you exercise daily and eat healthy, one good habit would get added in your personality. But if you don’t exercise daily eat lots of junk then you would get a bad quality added in your personality.
Many people suggest watching interview of renowned personalities to develop your personality. When you watch interview you get to know answering style, confidence and mindset of the person. I would say it’s good to watch such interviews but don’t get influenced by them. You would find various qualities in some personalities while watching their interview, sometimes these qualities are not present in you; this will either motivate you or demotivate you.
If you get motivated, then you will see to it that you have similar qualities. In case you have similar qualities then your personality would be similar to the personality you watched in interview. We here are talking about building own personality not the one influenced by others. In case you get demotivated you won’t be able to draft a basic structure of personality.
Let’s look at the construction method to build a strong personality.
1. Making list of available raw materials.
Analyze yourself and find out good and bad qualities in you. Make a list of them.
2. Listing extra raw materials.
Make a list of qualities that you want in yourself. Make certain goals to achieve those qualities.
3.Purchasing raw materials.
Get those extra qualities with by achieving goals. You can buy it using currency of hard work. Its currency of Humanity.
4. Drafting timetable for construction.
Make timeslots for pursuing your hobbies. For example, exercise, reading, self analysis etc. and be punctual.
5. The great tower is constructed.
You have your personality ready.
Few last things to do to make your personality better are, become aware about your strengths and weaknesses and try to overcome your fear with help of your strengths. Add in some qualities such as politeness, humanity, surety, confidence, self-esteem, punctuality etc. When you become a responsible citizen of Earth, then your personality enhances. So, respect and step towards protecting nature for a better tomorrow.
I hope you may have got an idea to draft a structure of personality. At end of the day, personality is yours and you can always renovate it.
